"Love doesn't just sit there like a stone.  It has to be made like bread,
remade all the time, made new." ~Ursula Le Guin

 
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Weddings and Renewals of Vows

Rev. Shockley OfficiatesFinding the words to express your love and commitment is exciting - and sometimes intimidating. You may share deep spiritual feelings that you wish to express during your ceremony.  You may want special readings that are significant to the two of you. Or you may choose to let your sense of humor and the fun you share dominate the ceremony.

We can help you create a wedding that incorporates the symbolism and rituals that are meaningful to you, or is just plain fun.  

Your wedding ceremony may include some or all of the following:

-Readings of poetry or appropriate texts
-Exchange of rings
-Exchange of vows
-Candle-lighting ceremony
-Sharing of wine and cake
-Rose ceremony

-Blessing of the union

If you have children from a previous marriage, you may want to consider ways to include the children in the ceremony, whether as a member of the wedding party or by having a "blending of the families" ceremony.

You may also wish to incorporate ethnic or cultural traditions - either to honor your family's history or because they speak to you in some way. These traditions range from the serious to the lighthearted. See our page on ethnic traditions for many ideas.

For the truly creative-minded, theme weddings are fun, entertaining, and memorable. Historical themes such as Victorian, Shakespearean, and Gothic are popular; so are more contemporary themes like Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Elvis, Harry Potter, or Dr. Seuss. Unusual locations (roller coasters, rodeos, skydiving, museums, street fairs) can add to the ambience. When it comes to writing the vows for a theme wedding, you can really let your imagination run wild - or let us write something unique and fun for you.

If you are already married, we will be happy to officiate over your renewal of vows. Couples choose to renew their vows for a variety of reasons.  Perhaps your first ceremony was a civil ceremony that left you feeling unsatisfied.  Perhaps you've been married for a while and you feel the need to reiterate and reinvigorate your mutual love for one another.  Whatever the reason, Weddings Out of the Ordinary will help you craft a lovely and memorable renewal of vows ceremony.

Here is a sample wedding ceremony, similar to those we have performed in the past.

Weddings Out of the Ordinary
Bella Vista, California
(530) 472-1617
(530) 604-2984 (cell)